Getting Ready for Reception: How to Support Your Child’s Big Step Into School

Starting Reception is a major milestone—not just for your child, but for you too! But being “ready for school” isn’t about reciting the alphabet or doing sums. It’s about helping your child feel confident, capable, and curious as they begin their educational journey.

Our preschool staff are already working hard to prepare children for the transition, but there’s plenty you can do at home to support their development and boost their independence.

Encourage Independence

Schools really value children who can manage basic self-care. Can your child put on their own coat? Use the toilet independently? Fasten their shoes?

Try encouraging practice with:

• Zips and buttons

• Putting on socks and shoes

• Washing hands thoroughlyThese everyday skills can make a big difference when they start school.

Build Social and Communication Skills

Being able to express themselves clearly and interact positively with others is a huge part of school readiness.

You can support your child by:

• Practicing turn-taking and sharing during play

• Helping them articulate their feelings and needs

• Encouraging them to listen and respond to others

Recognising their own name is also helpful — especially for finding coat pegs, bags, or labelled clothing!

Foster Play and Curiosity

Unstructured, imaginative play is one of the best ways children learn. It builds creativity, resilience, and problem-solving abilities.

Activities like:

• Reading stories together

• Drawing or painting

• Singing songs

• Exploring nature…all nurture the skills they’ll use in the classroom.

Talk About Daily Routines

Children thrive with predictability. Helping your child understand the idea of a structured day — including things like lining up, playtimes, and lunch breaks — can ease anxiety. Try:

• Practicing a consistent bedtime and morning routine

• Talking through what a typical school day might involve

Encourage a Love of Learning

Don’t worry about formal academics just yet. Instead, focus on sparking curiosity and helping your child enjoy learning in everyday moments.

Fun activities like:

• Counting stairs or toys

• Spotting letters on signs

• Helping with simple baking…build early numeracy and literacy skills in a natural way.

Every Child Is Different

There’s no single checklist for being “school ready.” What matters most is that your child feels safe, happy, and eager to explore their new environment.

Want more tips? Visit startingreception.co.uk for helpful resources on preparing your little one for school life.